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Have you experienced an abusive relationship and would you like to participate in a recovery program that helps rebuild your life and confidence after abuse? Please get in touch if you would like a place on Own My Life Course, starting in September 2021. This is a confidential, women only group offered in partnership with the Children’s Centre.![]()
The Own My Life Course is a new and innovative programme that builds self-esteem and self-reliance after being subjected to an abusive relationship, using videos, interactive content and discussions within a safe and supportive environment. Women have an OML Journal containing all the course material and with space to make notes, which they can take home for reference after the Course, if it is safe for them to do so.![]()
Response by women who have completed this program in both the Isle of Man and UK has been extremely positive – they have found it “life-changing” and “transforming”. If you yourself are not affected by abuse, maybe you know a friend or family member who is. Please share with anyone who would benefit from this supportive course. More information on our website www.space4action.info
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Space4Action are committed and dedicated to helping end domestic abuse on the Isle of Man.
www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/republic-of-ireland/domestic-violence-can-cost-women-113000-euro-...
Domestic violence can cost women 113,000 euro over 20 years – research
www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk
The report from Safe Ireland and NUI Galway assesses that the national cost of domestic violence to survivors is an estimated 56 billion euro over a 20.5-year journey.
A great idea: if you or anyone you love has ever had to set up home again after domestic abuse -with little or no money or perhaps after financial abuse, and knows the struggle of trying to make a home and provide for children when you have next to nothing, please fill out and share this survey. Hopefully it would apply to branches of shops over here - or we can try to ensure that it does!
www.surveymonkey.co.uk
The Charity Shop Gift Card survey powered by surveymonkey.com.
“What Britney Spears described in her testimony this week is a situation where every element of her life is being controlled by her father through law, violating her human rights. This control, which means that Britney can no longer see her friends and has been told what medication she must take, has been described as “abusive” by the singer and given what we know of the case, not acceptable. ![]()
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➡️ Coercive control has been illegal in England and Wales since 2015, yet in the US the courts have allowed Britney’s father to be able to exercise control over every part of her life, down to forced contraception and if she can get married. ![]()
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❗️This horrendous experience must be stopped - women’s bodies do not belong to men, and these decisions are limiting her life choices. Britney has told a court that the arrangement is “abusive” and at Women’s Aid we back Britney’s right – and every woman’s right – to have control over their own lives. Any mental illness experienced by women should never be managed legally or medically in a way that removes their right to freedom, dignity and respect.” - Farah Nazeer, CEO at Women’s Aid. ![]()
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➡️ If you are experiencing coercive control, reaching out for support can be a difficult but brave first step. Women’s Aid is here for you. Click here to access our services and speak with an expert support worker: www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/
‘Huge concern’ as three-in-four domestic abuse cases fail to end in charges | ITV News
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‘Huge concern’ as three-in-four domestic abuse cases fail to end in charges; ITV National News
A new report by HMICFRS (Her Majesty’s Inspectorate of Constabulary and Fire & Rescue Services) — released today — has acknowledged that the pandemic has put domestic abuse survivors at greater risk, and has praised the police for making good use of technology and working with partners to find new ways to support survivors. ![]()
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"We know that perpetrators used the pandemic and lockdown measures to heighten their abuse and control, and that many survivors and their children were trapped at home with abusers – isolated and shut off from support. Specialist domestic abuse services worked around the clock to support survivors during this extremely challenging year and, as this report shows, worked innovatively with police forces to keep women and children safe.![]()
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"But our research with survivors during the pandemic found inconsistencies in officers’ responses – including those who didn’t respond quickly to reports of domestic abuse, or didn’t take appropriate action to sanction the perpetrator. It is unacceptable that for every four domestic abuse crimes, three are closed with no further action for the perpetrator." — Farah Nazeer, Chief Executive at Women's Aid.![]()
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Read our full response ➡️ lght.ly/2ehd44a
'He'd creep up on me and follow me around': my husband used my hearing loss to control me
inews.co.uk
I am sharing my story now because women with disabilities are more than twice as likely to experience domestic abuse
Great campaign from Atlanta which should be spread everywhere:Happy Father's Day! Thanks to these generous donors to our 2021 It Takes a Man to End Domestic Violence campaign. Check today's AJC for a print copy!
Warning over spikes in domestic abuse during England matches
www.independent.co.uk
Abuse surged by 38% when England lost in previous World Cups
Financial Abuse: Often the First Sign of Domestic Abuse
buff.ly
Financial abuse occurs in almost every domestic abuse situation. Yet it is not easily recognized. Learn the most common ways financial abuse occurs.
Police officer helping domestic abuse victims after his mum's murder
www.walesonline.co.uk
Michael Taggart has been honoured with an MBE for his work
www.channel4.com/news/more-than-100-women-accuse-police-officers-of-domestic-abuse-alleging-boys-...
More than 100 women accuse police officers of domestic abuse, alleging ‘boys club’ culture
www.channel4.com
One woman every week is coming forward to report their partner in the police is seriously abusing them or their children - more than 125 have come forward in the last two years, Channel 4 News can rev...
We will be attending this virtual conference. The original SUDTA Conference in Wales was excellent, with a really good range of quality speakers - a truly inspirational event . Looking forward to this one!
Stand Up To Domestic Abuse 2021
www.eventbrite.co.uk
Stand Up to Domestic Abuse and SafeLives are hosting a celebratory virtual event.
IMPORTANT NOTICE, OWN MY LIFE COURSE: Due to multiple circumstances beyond our control, we have taken the decision to postpone this course. Please get in touch if you are interested in a place on the course, or in referring someone you know, and we will put you on the waiting list for the course and update you when we confirm the new dates. Apologies and thanks for your patience.
COURSE STARTING JUNE 15th:![]()
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Space 4 Action in partnership with the Children’s Centre are proud and excited to offer a recovery programme for women affected by Domestic Abuse - the Own My Life Course (OML).![]()
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The Own My Life Course is a new and innovative programme that builds self-esteem and self-reliance after being subjected to an abusive relationship, using videos, interactive content and discussions within a safe and supportive environment. Women have an OML Journal containing all the course material and with space for them to make notes, which they can take home for reference after the Course, if it is safe for them to do so.![]()
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Response by women who have completed this program in both the Isle of Man and UK has been extremely positive – they have found it “life-changing” and “transforming”.![]()
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Location: Ramsey at Bonwick House, Lezayre Rd.![]()
Time: 18:30 – 20:30 ![]()
Starts: June 15th (delivered in two 6 week blocks with a 1 week break) ![]()
Added extras: Creche will be available for those with children (please let us know if required)
When a Domestic Abuser Holds the Family Pet Hostage
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Some people won't leave an abusive partner if their pet's safety is threatened.
onlinelibrary.wiley.com
This article begins to build knowledge of how non-violent coercive controlling behaviours can be central to children's experiences of domestic violence. It considers how children can be harmed by, a.....
Good article discussing the complexities of abuse; the myths about it and the psychological reasons people cling to the myths, and end up victim-blaming (including self-blaming). Thought provoking read - recommended.
ow.ly
If we stop thinking in the absolute binaries of “good” people and “abusers,” we can actually begin to free ourselves and our communities from cycles of violence.
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If we stop thinking in the absolute binaries of “good” people and “abusers,” we can actually begin to free ourselves and our communities from cycles of violence.
The illusion of justice: Mothers, IPVA and the family courts
mdxminds.com
Mia Scally (Forensic Psychology PHD student at MDX) outlines 4 of the 6 main myths affecting mothers and children in family court getting their voice heard and justice served.
Instagram PhotosOther people on a first date vs. me on a first date. ❤️😂 Who else can relate?! ![]()
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#narcissisticabuse #highlysensitiveguide #redflags #manipulation #shahidaarabi #toxicpeople #toxicpeople #gaslighting #lovebombing #instafun #yourdailydoseofhumor
victimscommissioner.org.uk
Read the full report online. Some victims, including those of the most serious sexual offences such as rape, are at risk of coming face-to-face with defendants because courts are not [...]
Mel B on domestic abuse, trauma and recovery: ‘In my mind there was no way out’
www.theguardian.com
Four years after escaping her marriage, the former Spice Girl talks about confidence, family – and why the pandemic has led to a rise in abusive relationships
Timeline Photos💬 “I can’t stop crying and I feel too emotional to talk.” ![]()
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Sometimes typing might feel easier than talking, which is why we're just one click away. ![]()
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If you find yourself feeling scared of your partner or if something isn't quite right in your relationship, you can reach out to our expert support workers between 10am-6pm every day. ![]()
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Wright on why he made domestic abuse documentary
www.bbc.co.uk
In a new documentary, former England, Arsenal, Crystal Palace and West Ham striker Ian Wright shares his own story of growing up in a psychologically abusive and violent home.
Wright on why he made domestic abuse documentary
www.bbc.co.uk
In a new documentary, former England, Arsenal, Crystal Palace and West Ham striker Ian Wright shares his own story of growing up in a psychologically abusive and violent home.
Mobile UploadsYou are enough 💛. Don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise 💪🏽. ![]()
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#thecourtsaid #youareenough #healingjourney
Trevor Noah brilliantly explains why men need to take responsibility for women's safety
www.upworthy.com
"We should be steering this conversation to where it belongs, centered on us. Because this is our responsibility."
www.msn.com/en-gb/entertainment/celebrity/my-husband-starved-me-choked-me-and-raped-me-within-hou...
'My husband starved me, choked me and raped me within hours of giving birth'
www.msn.com
'My husband starved me, choked me and raped me within hours of giving birth'
The Domestic Abuse Bill is historic but a missed opportunity to make support for child victims law
inews.co.uk
It's not right that children fleeing domestic abuse lose their place on NHS and school waiting lists
The Domestic Abuse Bill is historic but a missed opportunity to make support for child victims law
inews.co.uk
It's not right that children fleeing domestic abuse lose their place on NHS and school waiting lists
Hoping Uk and Isle of Man will follow where Australia leads!
Judges to be trained on domestic violence
www.theaustralian.com.au
Federal family law judges are set to receive training on domestic violence issues — including on recognising coercive control — as part of a push by the courts to better protect the safety of chil...
Judges to be trained on domestic violence
www.theaustralian.com.au
Federal family law judges are set to receive training on domestic violence issues — including on recognising coercive control — as part of a push by the courts to better protect the safety of chil...
www.msn.com/en-gb/news/uknews/girls-should-report-sexual-assault-allegations-to-someone-they-trus...
Girls should report sexual assault allegations to 'someone they trust', says Gavin Williamson
www.msn.com
Girls should report sexual assault allegations to 'someone they trust', says Gavin Williamson
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I've interviewed many inspiring people during the #EndThisInjustice campaign - but do read @GeorgiaDA2018 story in today's @Daily_Express her bravery is incredible #domesticabuse ![]()
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@Dontlookback198 @laurarichards99 @baronessnewlove @NataliePage31 @RachelRileyRR #DABill #lawchange
Saw Georgia speak at the National Survivors Conference, she is an amazing young woman. Georgia raises awareness of the impact of domestic abuse on children and that when their mothers are abused, children are victims too. www.msn.com/en-gb/news/world/teenager-who-saw-stepfather-murder-mother-says-crime-register-would-...
Just a reminder of “who’s back’...Lundy Bancroft! ![]()
A few tickets still available, email for details 👇🏼
Resources for survivors and bystanders as COVID-19 restrictions change - Welsh Women's Aid
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With children returning to school and opportunities to meet up increasing it is important that professionals, friends, family members and others know how to safely respond and signpost anyone wanting ...
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My life as a female, up until the age of 39. I met my husband then, who is not a saint, just a decent human being. ![]()
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Feel free to share your experience of being female in a male dominated world, and use the #
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